It seems like more and more kids are being bullied at school. However, it’s not just kids being bullied, it’s also adults. I remember all throughout school I’ve been bullied, from being called “fat”, “slut”, “b****”, “loser”, “waste of space and time”, “stupid”, etc. Even though it might seem like it hurt that person it did. Those harsh words that you said will stay with that person forever.
I remember in elementary school I had a short haircut and people would always make fun of me because I looked like a boy. I pretty much was the outcast in all the schools I’ve gone to. I never liked being treated differently. Once I got to high school, someone pushed me over the edge. When I was in band, my section, note I was the first and only girl in my section with 7 other guys, everyone thought I was gay. It really didn’t bother me until the senior started to throw rocks at me. That day I stood up for myself for the first time. I called them out and yelled at them. At this time no one really knew me. I was a quiet little freshman and came from a different school than everyone else. What I did next to make them stop I am not proud of. I turned around and called them out on their insecurities. After I was done with that I ask them if they liked being treated that way, all they did was stare at me in silence. I didn’t care what they thought; I was so tired of being pushed around all of my life. After that day everyone gave me respect but I would never forget what they had done to me. Once you say mean and nasty things to someone, it sticks with them forever.
I’ve always hated people who bullied others. If I ever saw someone being bullied by someone else I always went over to them and stand up for them. Bullies have no right to bring someone down. That presentation that the students did in class brought back all those painful memories. However, it also brought back how much stronger it made me. Even now when someone tries to bully me, I just think how sad their life is. I mean if you have to bully someone to make yourself feel better then there are some serious problems with you. The most recent act of bullying on me was when one of my own family members was making fun of certain things I watch. Yeah, they might have meant it in a funny, playful way but in the end it hurt me. That’s when of course my defense came in. I just turned around and told them how sad it was that he was a grown man and in order to get his humor for the day was to make his own family feel terrible. Well, once I said that, he stopped. He has started to respect the whole family as actual family. He still jokes around but he now knows when enough is enough. He knows when he has crossed the line.
Bullying can harm others emotionally, and physically. Think before you say anything. Remember, you don’t know what that other person has been through in their life. So, just keep any open mind.
P.S. There is a great movie out about anti-bullying. You should check it out. It's called Cyberbu//y.
P.S. There is a great movie out about anti-bullying. You should check it out. It's called Cyberbu//y.
